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Ep 24: Inside Club Tempted
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A lot of clubs promise an “experience” but very few sweat the small stuff that actually makes a night feel easy, safe, and fun. From the moment we walked into Club Tempted in Louisville, Kentucky, we could feel the difference: a massive three-story layout, clear rules, friendly redirection when needed, and staff who seem genuinely invested in the community.
We break down what Club Tempted is, who it’s for, and why it’s become a real destination lifestyle club. Think BYOB with mixers, ice, snacks, and supplies handled for you, plus VIP spaces where play is allowed, a dance floor with a clothing rule until 10 PM, and a dungeon built for kink-friendly members. We also talk about what’s coming next, including plans for a members-only themed hotel next door, and why Louisville weekends like Derby season could make this a perfect lifestyle travel add-on.
The biggest standout is the membership process. We walk through the online profile, screening, ticketing, and the in-person interview and private tour that help new lifestyle couples feel grounded instead of overwhelmed. We also explain why we see Club Tempted as a lifestyle community club, not a sex club, and how that difference shows up in discretion, vetting, and the way people connect inside.
And yes, we tell the full story of how our night ended in the fishbowl room with rows of voyeurs watching through the windows. Subscribe for more lifestyle club reviews and travel intel, share this with a friend who’s curious, and leave a rating or review so more couples can find the show.
Episode Teaser And Adult Disclaimer
SPEAKER_03We ended up in a fishbowl room.
SPEAKER_01The fishbowl room.
SPEAKER_03And it is exactly what you think it is. It is a room full of windows that people can watch in.
SPEAKER_01There was another couple next to us playing on the bed and we came in and, you know, joined. I don't know if you know us or not, but we had at least three rows of people watching.
SPEAKER_02There was a lot of voyeurism happening.
SPEAKER_01It was it was a lot of fun. This podcast is intended for adult audiences over the age of 18. The podcast includes adult language, situations, sexually explicit material. Listeners, please be advised.
SPEAKER_03Welcome to Next Door Spling, a podcast about lifestyle travel and events, hosted by Veteran Lifestyle Couple Cora and Max. In each episode, we hope to entertain, educate, and provide information based on our own personal experiences. The views, thoughts, and ideas expressed are solely our own and not to be taken as professional advice.
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SPEAKER_03Welcome everyone. Thank you for joining us today. If you are new here, we are Cora and Max, and this is our channel. About a year ago, we sold everything, bought an RV, and decided to travel the country and go to all the lifestyle clubs and venues and document that along the way and tell you all about our journeys and how you could go to some of these clubs as well. And then for those of you who have been with us a while, thank you for staying and subscribing. Thanks for coming back and checking us out. We really, really appreciate the support and the loyalty to our channel.
SPEAKER_01Absolutely. And you know, as we bring this shit show on the road and bring it to a neighborhood near you, we are so excited because we are taking this to Canada. We're we're in Kentucky now, but we are getting ready to get on the road this upcoming week, and we're going up towards Niagara Falls, and we're going to be going over towards Maine and checking out the east coast of the United States. And then obviously we'll be heading back to Florida in October, November time frame. So we are excited to bring all these great clubs to you guys and hoping we get to answer your questions too about the lifestyle and what's going on around the United States with all these different clubs.
SPEAKER_03Yes, today we are talking about a club in Louisville. Come right back and see where we're talking about.
Club Tempted Overview And Expansion
SPEAKER_01All right, folks, we are back and we are so excited for today's episode. This one is all about Club Tempted in Louisville, Kentucky. And I tell you, we were here last night, had a great time and enjoyed it. And I tell you, we're gonna go get into our story of what happened last night as we uh came into the door, and I got all that, but that'll be later on in the episode. So make sure you stick around for that. But we want to start off with what is Club Tempted?
SPEAKER_03Club Tempted, you guys, is pretty amazing. It is a premiere lifestyle club that is membership-based only, and it is 20,000 square feet, three stories, over 15 play spaces, a dance blur, a game room, multiple VIP sections, and it is a BYOB style. So it's the kind of club that you bring your own bottle. Here, unique to here is everything else is included. You could come in your cute little costume uh of whatever the theme is for the night, and then just bring your bottle of booze if you drink. If not, they have mixtures here. You don't have to bring booze. Um, and then just party the night away. It is so unique that it the details here are pretty amazing.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, you hit it right on the noggin because I'll tell you the details, it's all the mother details. And here, Club Tempted, they did not miss out on hitting any one of the details. From the parking lot being paved and marked and very in the outside of the building, beautiful. Uh, they've done an amazing job with the upraising. They're gonna go a little bit further. Uh, we got some things to talk about in the future here as well. We'll talk about that a little bit later in the episode. But I'll tell you, this place is amazing. It is, you know, 20,000 square feet. It's it's huge. I was blown away by how big it was we got here.
SPEAKER_03It is. The uh locals really embraced this club, but it's quickly become a destination for a lot of visitors to the area. So a lot of people are traveling just here to Louisville for Club Tempted. And because of that, they have a really exciting announcement and expansion happening.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, that expansion is going to be right next to door. There's a building them now, but they're gonna demolish it. And as a matter of fact, they just got the plans approved to actually break ground and build a small hotel for those private members that are members here at the club to be able to just stay next door in themed style rooms as well. So they're talking about built, you know, around 20 rooms, I think it was. Right. Uh, and of course, that will put might change. So what you know, probably around 20 rooms, but it's going to be amazing. Like I said, they're always pumping money and always looking to upgrade this amazing experience here at Club Tempted.
SPEAKER_03And they just recently had an upgrade on both sides of the building and expanded on the first and the second floor, and it added new VIP areas and uh play spaces. And that just opened um January of 2026. So if you haven't been here in 2026, come back and check out all the great upgrades here.
SPEAKER_01And you've had a the VIP section more than once. Now, they have a unique thing here that downstairs they have a VIP lounge. Now, you can add onto your membership or onto your uh price tag for the night and buy a seat or a ticket to get into the VIP lounge. So I've never seen anything like that. It's just a ticket to get into the VIP lounge and then it's first come, first served to any of the VIP areas in there. So you could set down your cooler, your drinks, whatever, take over a spot, or just mingle amongst all the other VIP areas or other VIP goers in there and have a great time. That's where we were at last night. And then what's amazing is that they allow play to happen in the VIP lounge.
SPEAKER_02In the VIP space.
SPEAKER_01And they do have another rule. Uh you know, you work with another rule is that at 10 o'clock out the dance floor area, everybody has to be clothed up until 10 o'clock, just in the VIP. I'm sorry, in the uh dance floor area. Uh pretty much anywhere else on the second floor and in the VIP lounge, you can be naked and having a great time right off the get-go. And I'll tell you, it is so much fun. Great time last night. And that I'm looking forward to tonight.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Tonight is all about the fairy tales.
SPEAKER_03Sexy fairy tale night.
SPEAKER_01Sexy fairy tale night. Can't wait.
SPEAKER_03So that's a good look for us. All right, did we miss anything about the what?
SPEAKER_01I think we got the what cover. I think so.
Inclusivity Rules And Best Nights
SPEAKER_01So I think we should probably get into who and who is Cempted for.
SPEAKER_03This was very unique to me. They cater to all spectrums of the lifestyle. So we have talked about spectrums often in the lifestyle. They here at Club Attempted, they cater to all of us to include voyeurism, exhibitionism, um, poly couples, the LGBT community, kink and the EDSM community, uh, swingers. All of us are welcome here and catered to. And we've really found that welcoming, inclusive environment very nice here at Simtid and kind of unique. Um, this area is very inclusive. Most of the people here last night when we were here uh were between the ages of 35 and 50 and all nationalities, all sizes, all kinds of people. That was great. And one thing else that I really liked about here is it's very single-friendly. Single men, single women, it's very single friendly. Right. I am like that here. Um they were welcomed and they were um embraced as well. And we don't often all the time see that in a lot of clubs. And so that was nice here.
SPEAKER_01Now they do. Single men don't get all, you know, woo, we're going. Uh, they do limit how many single men come each night. So on Friday and Saturday night, you have a women and one night women. And they they differentiate between how many could come in each night, but they have a very unique process, and we'll talk about that a little bit later in the half. Uh, a very unique process, which I actually embrace and I love the fact that they do that. And we'll keep that in a minute. But uh, back to the hoop. I think we've covered everything about the hoop. We got covered.
SPEAKER_03Well, I just wanted to highlight the all speculals over the weiss that I love. And so it was very inclusive. We loved that.
SPEAKER_01Absolutely. And they really do embrace the entire community. And we felt that right from the get-go as a minute, we walked in the door last minute.
SPEAKER_03Exactly. All right. When when should people come here?
SPEAKER_01Well, I'll tell you, you know, we're in Louisville, so obviously there's some big events that go on around here. You got the Kingland races, you know, the horse racing, you got the Bourbon Trail, all that other crazy stuff that goes around here in Kentucky. So I would say you can come here anytime. It is open year-round, and they do have amazing parties. It's theme night parties. Now, they just like any other clubs, and you guys have heard me say this before, it's typically Friday and Saturday night. Now, obviously, they're going to have some of the you know, New Year's Eve and you know whatever night they fall on. And uh they should probably have their Christmas party here too. I don't know, but this is a great place for. But I mean, there is a that there's always something to do here in the Kentucky area around Louisville, and why not tag on tent it to that if you're coming to the Louisville area? Or if you're just looking for a new place to come out and experience, this place, I'm telling you, is the place to come. It is amazing. I was blown away how big it is, how great the people are. Staff. Oh my gosh, the staff is amazing, right? Uh they did a great job welcoming us and then making us go right up on.
SPEAKER_03You know where this would be a great time to come for me? It would be during the derby. The first Saturday in May, do the derby during the day and then do Club Tinted at night. That sounds amazing.
SPEAKER_01The Derby's right up the road. I mean, the or uh what's it called? The track. Uh Kentucky Derby. Kentucky Derby. Yeah. Kentucky was right up the road. And it's real close to the airport, right? Oh, very quick. Like 10-15 minutes of the airport. So you can get here as quick as you possibly can.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. It was easy to get to as well. So the the parties are on Friday and Saturday. Friday night is a little more quiet of a party, which is very typical in most clubs. And then Saturday is the bigger party when the more people are here.
SPEAKER_01And that's that's a great point because when we were here last night, it was Friday night, and last night was Friday night. It was a much smaller group. But again, it was it was really cool for us. Now, just to let you guys know, when we come into one of these venues, we kind of fly in under the radar because we don't want the brick carpet treatment. We don't want, we want our own visual of what this place is, so we can take that and give it to you guys, right? We don't want it sugar coated, we don't want it any, you know, anything thrown with uh icing on top of anything like that. We want to see it first for our own eyes.
SPEAKER_03Well, as as a normal member, and as you would be coming here, that's the way we like to go to locations.
SPEAKER_01So we even told them as we reached out to the management team and said, hey, listen, we want to go through the process that you guys have right from the get-go, from new member right on through. So we'll bring that up here in a minute. Uh, but again, it was so unique and really cool how they did it. I was really excited for it. Not really puzzled they do it that way, but we'll we'll bring that up in a minute. But anything else we need to cover under the gear.
SPEAKER_03I think we covered where.
SPEAKER_01Lou, Kentucky. That's all you need to know. Gig gear. Yeah. All right.
Membership Screening Interview And Tour
SPEAKER_01So now we've covered the where. Why? Why was Wanting Thunder?
SPEAKER_03You know, I was thinking of this on two sides. I was thinking of it as a new lifestyle couple and a season lifestyle couple. And it is really unique for both. For new lifestyle couples, this would be a fantastic place to come because you are welcomed and you are embraced from the beginning and you get um a face to talk to. You don't just walk up to the door and get your ticket and walk in and you're like lose run around. That's not the way it works here. You get your you get your ticket, but then you get a tour, a very personal tour. Um, so for that reason, this is a wonderful place for brand new lifestyle and couples. And for seasoned lifestyle gumbles, this is fantastic because there's over 20 play spaces.
SPEAKER_01That's okay. Over how many play spaces, bro? As you can see, we're in the dungeon, too. You forgot Olibu at Nancy Murray. We're in their dungeon, the brand new dungeon they had just built. They built this within like two weeks, too. And that's amazing as you can see. The apparatuses around us. But yeah.
SPEAKER_03Right. And if you're listening to us on audio, sitting right behind us is a St. Andrews Cross. And that's a really a good time for us to mention. If you're listening on audio on Apple, uh Apple Podcast or Spotify or iHeartRadio, please every now and then jump over to YouTube because we do video walkthrough tours. So we have a video walkthrough tour of Club Tempted. Yes. That is one point from that's separate from this audio. So jump over there and and grab this.
SPEAKER_01And we say that because this place, again, 20,000 square feet, so many playrooms and so much to see. The walkthrough really doesn't even capture it all. And we took a long time to cat try to get everything into you know uh a phone, right? And in order to bring it to you guys. But I mean, that this place isn't in.
SPEAKER_03So the other thing I wanted to mention is for season lifestyle couples, this would be a fantastic place to come with a group of your friends and to have a destination. So for us being lifestyle, we meet people when we go on cruises and we go on different things and we meet people all around the country. What a great place to say, hey, on this weekend, this is where we're going, and we want you to come join us and let's do some cool things in Louisville and go to this restaurant and maybe go to the Derby and maybe, you know, do these other things, but then come to Club Tented on the Friday and Saturday tonight and have a VIP area.
SPEAKER_01And that's another great point because guess what's happening tonight? We actually have a bunch of friends that we never even realized they were coming here, but they reached out to us today and yesterday and said, hey, listen, we're gonna be Club Tempted tonight too. Can't wait to see you guys. It's been so long. And guess what? We're gonna be parting up the Friends tonight as well. So that's gonna be fun. We'll see if we can take it back on the playgrounds, but we'll see. Uh we'll we'll that point later. But okay, now let's get back to the the discussion about the process with the this is the how.
SPEAKER_03So this is very important. The how. It's a put different here at Club Tempted.
SPEAKER_01So at Club Tempted, you go to ClubTempted.com, right? And that's where you start and you build your profile. You can uh log in, create your username, password, and build a profile. Then you apply for the membership and then in the membership. And again, one thing that they're really cool here, and I really, really at first I was kind of like, hmm, this is a little different and weird, but we experienced it. We went through it, and I tell you, it is really awesome. The fact that they take the time to do this, they the managers sit down and talk to every new member, every new lifestyle. If you're brand new to the lifestyle, they're going to go a little bit further in their questioning and talking. But then what they do is they give a a question, you know, back and forth of just to answer all those questions you may have about the club, about the lifestyle in general, and everything else.
SPEAKER_03Before that happens, there's the online screening is as well, right? And then the tickets are purchased online.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, well, I was gonna get to that. But you do all that process, uh, you get your tickets online and all that right off their webpage. And then on that webpage, also there's a chat forum to where you can talk to other members that are coming to the parties at night, whatever. But again, the the great thing about the screening, and then not even just the screening, but then going through that interview process is for new lifestylers, and that's why Ms. Ford brought it up. I think it's a great idea for new lifestylers, is the place they come. Because as soon as you get done with that interview, they're gonna ask you questions and they're and you're gonna feel so comfortable about coming to this place. And then not only that, but you have somebody you can connect with because they're gonna they're gonna connect with you and they're gonna stay in contact with you and check on you throughout the night, throughout the weekend, whatever. And that right there would also just kind of relieve some of that tension and or you know anxiety about going to a lifestyle. I I think it's great. I think it's really great to do that, and one to take the time to care about the community and then give something back on community about, you know, hey, this is what you can expect.
SPEAKER_03And then caring about the members that are here already, and because they want to have vetted, screened people that are here for lifestyle. They they made this very clear, and this was so I was so happy to hear this. They want to make sure that people know that this is not a sex club.
SPEAKER_00Not a sex club.
SPEAKER_03This is a lifestyle community club, and that's the difference. We have been to sex clubs, and sex clubs are very different than lifestyle clubs.
SPEAKER_01And and you might be asking, well, what is the difference? Well, the difference is in a lifestyle club, they provide the atmosphere and the environment for you to make connections with other people to maybe take it to that next level. And that next level could be in the dungeon, it could be, you know, whatever your cake is. They, you know, leave it up to that apparatus of whatever you want to do. It in a sex club, it is you don't have to be in the lifestyle environment, you're just going there to look for sex, right? And then be everybody kind of knows it, and that's what they did. And we've been to those, it's a different flavor, it's for different people. Um, but it's it but this place is for lifestylers and a great area for those new lifestylers to dip your toe in, have that connection with somebody that can answer those questions for you, or show you the ropes, or not necessarily the ropes, but show you around the venue and stuff like that.
SPEAKER_03Speaking of that, the tour. The tour, they also do well, they also do so. Whenever you arrive, after you do the online piece and do the screening and buy your membership and all of that, and you come to the front, you will actually do a tour. So, couples, they do the tour first. Yep, and then uh they go through, and it's private tour. We had a tour with just one employee. They might take two couples at a time, but they don't do anything big groups, it's just a couple of couples.
SPEAKER_01And they schedule the tour, they schedule a time and they only do it on Friday nights. Now, some folks, if it you know, if you're coming in from out of town, they will do the interview over, you know, uh phone, uh either a phone call or FaceTime. Uh they did mention that that they can do that. But again, they you do the tour and then you do the interview process and you feel right at home at that point. You feel like you're one of the community at that point. Yes. And then again, like I said, they embrace you and they make sure that you're checked on all night long and uh make sure things are going okay for you.
SPEAKER_03And not and not checked on like hound on. They're not watching you by any means. I mean, you you can go off and do, you know, whatever you want, um, but they're just there to give you support if you need support. Many couples like that. And the tour was amazing to me because we've been to um we've been to clubs before that do the tour, and we've been to clubs that do not do the tour. And I appreciate the tour because I like to know where the bathroom's at. I like to know what's in what's in the playroom.
SPEAKER_01Speaking of bathrooms, there's bathrooms everywhere. There's holy cow, I think there's three sets of bathrooms on every floor.
SPEAKER_02There's a lot, a lot of bathrooms really appreciated that too.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, yeah. I think we've got the how pretty much a member, is it?
SPEAKER_03Again, and if you um the house starts at clubtempted.com. That's where to find the information and does just start the information and screening process.
SPEAKER_01Build your profile, look for membership, we want to fit to you. Make sure you do your again, the screening. You gotta provide uh IDs and stuff like that, the typical screening, and then make sure you get your schedule time, come here for your interview, and then the walkthrough tour, and then it's on like Dalton Callery up one.
SPEAKER_03And that's only a one-time thing, so you only do that one time. Uh so you know, and then there's all the pricing is on the website as well, because that fluctuates.
SPEAKER_00All right, so that's the how.
SPEAKER_01So our best part, my favorite part.
SPEAKER_00Just
BYOB VIP Lockers And Staff Tips
SPEAKER_00the tips, just the tips, all the tips. All right, let's start off with your tips.
SPEAKER_03Uh, my tip, my first tip is it is a BYO establishment, BYO B establishment. So that means bring your own booze, bring your own alcohol. They do provide everything else. So you could just walk in with just your alcohol bottle of whatever you drink. They provide mixers, ice, cups, um, soda, snacks, they provide everything else. Um, they also provide uh we usually would say BYOC, but here you don't have to do that because they provide condoms too. In every playroom, there are condoms, there's whites, there's towels, there's even little puppy pads, um, absorbent pads for ladies.
SPEAKER_00Well, those ladies that get really excited.
SPEAKER_03Get excited, and that's in every single playroom. That was amazing. And they have little stock cabinets outside in the hallway that if something is out in the playroom, they have attendance, you just let them know, and then it's resupply. And so that was fantastic. So literally, you could come to here with just a bottle in your hand, and that's all you need once you get in.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, and let's talk about that BYOB thing just for a second, because there is something here that is unique that I that that we haven't seen yet. Let's put it that way. And what they'll allow you to bring in coolers. We even were able to take our cooler with all of our now, I and I say what I like to do or Right did last night, which was really cool, was to bring in uh shots, stuff to make shots with. Because if you're hosting like in a VIP area, you know, it's all it's cool to everybody have a drink. But every now and then you want to do a you know a shot and a toast and you know, you know, mail with people. So, but you're allowed to bring that into your your VIP area or into that lounge area where we were at last night, or you can put it out into the coolers, you can put it behind the bar. There's so many areas that are open to you to be able to have your up a hole with it. And uh, you can bring in your own shot glasses. Now, we just brought in the little plastic shot cups and stuff like that, but they also had those. I don't know if you noticed that, but in the VIP lounge last night, they actually had little shot cups in there for us. So um, and not just for us, but for everybody that was in the VIP lounge. So that was cool. Again, it's all about the attention to detail and looking after those little bitty things because it makes the experience so much better. Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And the alcohol was done a few different ways. You could bring your bottle in, leave it at your table. You could take your bottle and put it in the um member cooler area that was like the large refrigerate refrigerators, um, or you could put it behind the bar. And there was a bar step. However, the rules here are The bar staff cannot pour your drink for you. So you could put it behind the bar, and the bar staff would you would just tell them what number it is or what the alcohol is, and they would give you the bottle. You would pour your own drink, and then the bottle that's in it would put the bottle.
SPEAKER_01And they have the mixers.
SPEAKER_03And then mixers and ice and there's a soda machine. Uh, there's also a snack area or a food area Friday and Saturday nights. There are food out there, bigger events, there's larger food as well.
SPEAKER_01And since this is just the tips, this is something that I just thought of and that we had to do a little bit earlier today. So we forgot to do it yesterday. Was make sure you bring in a little bit of cash because you always want to tip the bar staff and the staff here working because they're busting their ass to make sure your experience is amazing here. And boy, did they ever do a great job last night. I'm again really excited to see what tonight has in store.
SPEAKER_03Speaking of staff, wow, their staff is really amazing. Very attendant, smiles on their face. Are you having a good time? Courteous, kind, not um when they have to redirect someone, it's a redirection. It is not a um spanky. It's not a smack on the bottom.
SPEAKER_01Although somebody might like hat.
SPEAKER_03I don't know, but it was it was a redirection. And I really appreciated that. We were treated like adults.
SPEAKER_01And you weren't a lot. I think because of the like the whole even the process with the interview and make sure people are taking care of the management staff here and the leadership staff here, they do the same thing for their staff.
SPEAKER_02Yes.
SPEAKER_01They were telling us last night that they actually take their staff uh two or three times a year. They'll do like vacation trips for each other. And they'll go as a group and they really enjoy and they bond and they have a good time. So that you know kind of resonates right back into the club and you're having a good time here. And then take, you know, having a great staff. Yeah. So I think it's fantastic. All right. So Brett, what's your tip? My other tip, my tip, what's my tip, my tip, my tip. Oh, don't be a hey, we've talked about this before, but I'm gonna I'm gonna pound the nail home again today. Don't be a wallflower. This place here is a great example of where not to be a wallflower. We hear all the time about, oh, it's so clickish, there's this group here, and it well, that's usually because that you you gotta get out of your shell and go out and talk to people. We walk around last night and we didn't know anyone. We didn't know anybody, and we we kind of got comfortable and sat down and just sat, and I was like, hold on, wait a minute, we're we're in the wrong space here. We need to be talking to people. So get up, go out there, say hi, and all that's all it takes. Yeah, and a simple icebreaker could be, hey, how you doing? My name is, and that's it, that's it. And then off you go.
SPEAKER_03Well, and then as simple as, hey, it's my first time here, or you guys new as well, or what's your favorite thing about coming here?
SPEAKER_00What are the three questions that lifestyle always ask each other?
SPEAKER_03Oh, this is from where are you from? How long have you been in lifestyle? And what do you do for a little bit?
SPEAKER_01What do you do for a living? There's three questions right there that are icebreakers that help you break the ice and do a conversation, right? And then you can go on forever after that. You really can.
SPEAKER_02Yeah. That's a good one.
SPEAKER_01Don't do wallflower. Don't do wallflower. Get off your ass and go out there and talk to people.
SPEAKER_03All right. My next tip is there are three spaces for lockers. Use them. And um, they provide the locker. There's not a locker attendant at like at some some places. The lockers are first come, first serve. Bring a little lock if if you want your things locked up.
SPEAKER_01We're just a stop and bought one yesterday to make sure.
SPEAKER_03But also, I will say this: like we left our stuff on a table and in the VIP area and walked away from it. And I had no problem even thinking anyone would touch anything here. And so, you know, if you don't have a lock, I'm I would imagine your things would be okay. But in the main locker area, there is a changing space and um a little makeup section for like ladies, you can, you know, spruce up your hair or do your lips or whatever. Um so when we come to clubs, we usually clock come in street clothes or like a sec, you know, like a club dress or something like that. Moment. Well, you know, you have to get out of the house. And then whenever we're here is usually whenever I'll change into my sexy clothes. So, like tonight is sexy uh fairy tales, and I add a snow white outfit that is very revealing. And so I'm not wearing that walking into this place, too. And so um, I change whenever I get here, and then often whenever I leave, I change back to my street clothes or comfy clothes, depending on what the weather is outside, type of thing. And so use the lockers.
SPEAKER_01Not a tip, but I do want to bring this up. So all the play areas throughout this uh club temped, you don't have to be undressed to be in that. Yes, that's you can walk in with your clothes on. So, yes, the lockers are there, but if you just want to go explore and because we did last night, the we went up and just walked in the playroom area and see what kind of activity was going on. We actually sat that disembroiderism and had a great time sitting in the lounge area, and uh it was hot, and then that's when we decide, hey, let's go uh get our our go bag and let's get in this shit. And we did. Uh, and that's they'll come up good. But anyway, so uh any other tips? Any other tips? We got ring cash for the bar staff and the staff members.
SPEAKER_03Another thing I wanted to mention, you brought it up earlier, is the parking lot is huge and paid and safe. It is safe and secure. They has uh security staff outside and they were moving all night long last night. The security was in and out of space. They didn't hover, they didn't make you feel uncomfortable, but you knew they were there. It made me feel safe. I really appreciated that.
SPEAKER_01And I tell you, their security staff, uh, they know what they're doing. Uh there is a military base right down the road, and majority of them from there, and uh they know what they're doing. So we'll leave it at that.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, exactly.
SPEAKER_01Yep. I think I think that's all the just just the tips.
SPEAKER_03Just the tips.
SPEAKER_00Just the tips. All right, what do you got now?
SPEAKER_03All
Our Night Ends In Fishbowl
SPEAKER_03right, our experience. So whenever our our walkthrough last night. So our first line we ever uh visited was last night. And whenever you had did some preliminary online activity where you made our profile.
SPEAKER_01I built the profile, I uh you know, did the little chatting, letting people know back and forth, and uh, you know, just chatting it up a little bit. Got some messages. Yep, got some messages, set up our membership, uh, took care of all that. So that way there we when you show up at the door here. One thing, and this uh we didn't do I didn't do last night, so I wasn't prepared. So you want to make sure you have that app up on your phone with there's a barcode, and then there's a uh for once you bought your event tickets. Once you bought the event ticket, you'll get a little barcode and a little QR code. And when you get to the door, when you get up to the front desk, they'll scan it, they'll help the process go much faster at the door. Uh, but you'll get in the door and then they'll call somebody up to do a tour. They'll give you, yes, they'll give you your little bracelets at that point. That's where you can buy access to the VIP area, lounge area, or whatever. Uh, but then they'll bring you inside with the member that's gonna give you the tour, and then they'll allow you to that's what we did. Yep. They'll they'll allow you to put down your stuff, and then you'll start your tour. And we did a walkthrough tour.
SPEAKER_03So we did a tour with Chris last night. And I think the tour, what was it, maybe 25, 30 minutes?
SPEAKER_01It was it wasn't lengthy. We were asking questions. We know, because obviously we were in the area.
SPEAKER_03And it was just it was just us two and Chris. And it was, I think, 745. So it was before a lot of the members were here. And so, and it was scheduled. We had to have a scheduled time for our tutorial. Yeah, and which was great. And so we did that 745. We we did all three floors. He showed us where every bathroom was, he showed us why um the wipes are on the bottom shelf. Oh, yes. He showed us why actually the cleaning wipes, like the clean and the Clorox wipes, were on the bottom shelf, and the dude wipes wipes or body wipes was on the top shelf. And it was like that in every single room. He explained why.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, because trust me, fellas, you do not want a woman grabbing onto one of those alcohol-based clean and then trying to clean off your yeah, don't do that.
SPEAKER_03He showed us also where the outside lounge area was at, uh and then you know, all of the play spaces. And he explained the door policy, he explained the rope policy, all of those things.
SPEAKER_01Uh very well done. And very informative and right down to the detail. Like I said, it's all about the details because the details set up the experience. Right. So then we uh got done the tour and uh we had access to the VIP lounge area. So we went in with our bags, and we scoped out an area, got set up with some ice, sat there for a while, had a drink, kind of talked about what was going on, and then we went out and mingled. And we mingled and danced a little bit. Now at 10 o'clock, every night, Friday and Saturday night, they do a um they call it um kind of like uh information where they stock everything in music and everything, and they give out all the information about tonight, what's going on, introduce, which I thought was cool too, introduce all the staff members that are going to be working, like the is a stat and stuff like that, security and all that. So you all you get another connection. You get another connection with people, and that way they're you know, hey, that guy's security. But anyway, uh we went through that process, and then they started right off with line dancing. Cha Cho salad. My favorite, my favorite one. Right. So we uh we did some dancing. Yep, we did some dancing, and then uh we um managed to meet a couple that we actually met at another event. Uh yes. Where was that event? It was in uh Tennessee. Tennessee. Yeah, when we were in Tennessee, we met a couple and then they were here uh because they're from the area, and so they were here last night. So we talked to them a little bit, asked what's going on, and then we decided, hey, let's go explore with Player Mario's, and that's when we came upstairs to the third floor. I can't believe that's three four floors. Three floors.
SPEAKER_0320,000 square feet.
SPEAKER_01Anyway, so we came up here and that's when we sat in the lounge, and they had you know some nice uh visuals going on on the videos going on on the TVs around us. So we were like, huh. And um got a little hot and bothered, and that's when we decided, hey, let's go downstairs, get our goat bag, and then we came upstairs and uh partaked, and we we let first.
SPEAKER_03We ended we ended up in a fishbowl room.
SPEAKER_00The fishbowl room.
SPEAKER_03And it is exactly what you think it is. It is a room full of windows that people can watch in, and on the back side of the wall was like an aquarium uh feel in there.
SPEAKER_01So one was a big one wall was nothing but a window, right?
SPEAKER_03But that's yeah, we was on a windows on two sides, and then the other two sides.
SPEAKER_01Well, I don't know if you noticed or not, but so that we were in there, there was another couple uh next to us playing on the bed, and we came in and you know joined in with them. And uh I don't know if you noticed or not, but we had uh at least three rows of people watching uh through the door and out the window.
SPEAKER_02There was a lot of voyeurs and had to be.
SPEAKER_01It was it was a lot of fun. And uh there was even one point where Miss Cora was told as we walked out and as we were getting our stuff, like, wow, we'd never heard anybody that loud over the music outside. So she just gets a little loud now. So a little loud. But anyway, we had a great time last night. So after that, we uh went, cleaned up, and uh got our stuff together and uh said goodbye to the man and the staff, and then we were out of here by 12:30 last night.
SPEAKER_02Uh that was nice.
SPEAKER_01And um back to the hotel and had a great time. And uh I bet it was again, can't wait for the night. It's nice to be such the blast.
SPEAKER_02Yes, yeah.
SPEAKER_01Anything else?
SPEAKER_03We I think we covered everything.
SPEAKER_01We did. So that was our experience.
SPEAKER_03Yes. All right, next up is the mailbag.
SPEAKER_01You know I missed this one. So come back, react to you.
SPEAKER_03We're gonna take a little break and come back. Listen to our mailbag question.
SPEAKER_01Yes. All
Mailbag Favorite Places And Why
SPEAKER_01right, folks, we are back in our mailbag question of the day. This one we get all the time. We've answered it at least probably 10,000 times already. No, maybe not. Anyway, I like to exaggerate a little bit too. But uh anyway, so our mailbag question of the day is what is your favorite place that you've visited so far in your travels and why? So we're gonna do it this way. She has an answer, I had an answer. So, Ms. Core, what's your answer?
SPEAKER_03My answer is it depends. It depends. And and I I covet this. I have lived in, I believe, 15 states my whole life. I was a military child, military wife, and so I've lived all over. And people also often ask me that same question: where's your favorite place you lived? And I can't answer it because all of them are unique. All of them have their own fun thing and pros and cons. So it just depends. It depends on what kind of mood I am, what I'm looking for. If I'm looking for a party environment, I'm looking for a good dance floor and good music and DJs. Um, if I am in a relaxed environment, I'm looking for a quieter venue. I'm looking for less people. Um, if I am wanting to involve a destination that we're going to be somewhere, anywhere, another, you know, for another reason, I'm looking for a destination. So for me, it just depends. I don't have a favorite. All of them are unique and all of them have pros and cons. Nope. What's your answer?
SPEAKER_01Well, I uh I'll be honest with you guys, and uh this might sound weird and a little bit different. Um, mine's much like Miskora's answer. However, um I would say that coming into this, I did have, or I'd like to say we had a favorite place to go. But when we start traveling and going to all these different places, what we have found is that every location is unique because it also has its own constituents. Yeah. It's almost like a like a democratic republic to where that constituent or all the constituents have a vote and say into what the management does at the place, right? So that's why I love about this place. Again, going back to Tempted was the fact that they spent so much time with the constituents, the members, and making sure that, hey, they're answering questions and and going through that interview process, the doing the extra level for discretion, because again, everybody's worried about discretion, right? Nobody wants to lose a job over what they do on the weekend. But they they took the time here, and that's what's unique about this place is the discretion and the process of making sure that everybody has a good time, everybody's taken care of, and the community is being taken care of by what they provide here. So this place is unique. I would like to say it's my favorite this weekend. But yeah, but it that the that the being a favorite is is a is a tough one because every place is unique. Uh the last place we were at, Pandora's uh forest, Pandora's Down, was unique and was amazing and a blast. But it was its own little entity. Right. It's almost like little villages in our community of Letchstock. And every village is a little bit different, but they all contribute something back to the bigger community of Letch though. Yeah, I like it. And I I think it's crazy that we have learned that, or at least for me, I've learned so much of that over this time of travel that uh because I really thought that no, my favorite is going to be Trapeze in Fort Lauderdale. And it was for a longest time. Because that was our we would go to all the time, or secrets or whatever. But even those have a unique flavor to their constituents or to the people that are there, and they're all different. And not every place can be like Tampa, Florida, and be so amazing. So no. Uh, but that was we're finding out as we're in Kentucky, as we're going out to Canada to check out some clubs in Canada, we have now opened our eyes to where it's just like everybody in the world is unique and it brings their own flavor, so don't the clubs. And that's what I love.
SPEAKER_03And I would also add to that that it your favorite place is going and may change based on where you're at in life, what you're looking for for a vacation. Because people will people will message us and say things like, you know, I I want to go, I'm I'm a newbie, we're nervous. Where should we go? Well, my answer to that is going to be different than a couple that's been lifestyle for 10 years. And and I might ask, you know, some questions back about what what they're looking for. Are you looking for vacation? Are you looking for relaxation? Are you looking to just party or both? Yeah, or both. And so it just depends on what you're looking for as to what the favorite is. So to answer the question, I have a lot of favorites.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, all of them.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, I have a lot of favorites, and I can't I can't narrow it down.
SPEAKER_01Yes, it that's a tough one. And uh well, actually, maybe we answered this way. Uh, our favorite one is the next one we're going to.
SPEAKER_03Or the last one. That's like military bases, too. What's your favorite base you ever lived at? It's the one you're going to next or the one you just win.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. All right. I think we got the mail dad. Boat under wraps. It is. Yeah.
SDC Group Socials And Closing
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