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Ep 15: Secrets Hideaway Explained
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Florida has plenty of resorts, but not many where you can go from a quiet clothing optional pool day to a full-on themed party weekend and still feel protected by clear rules, strong consent culture, and real security. We’re recording on location at Secrets Hideaway in Kissimmee, Florida and walking you through what it’s actually like, from the courtyard vibe to the dungeon space inside Club Swinkster.
We get into the details people always ask for before they book: the five-acre layout, individually owned condo rooms, pools and hot tubs, bars, the newer tiki area, and why Secrets is a legit travel destination for couples from all over the US and beyond. We also talk logistics that matter, like how to find accurate info on secretsfl.com, how day passes and wristbands work, and why takeovers can change the crowd from weekend to weekend. If you’re looking up “Secrets Hideaway Kissimmee,” “adults only lifestyle resort,” or “swingers resort near Orlando,” this is the practical starter guide we wish everyone had.
We also answer a mailbag question we hear all the time: can you go to a lifestyle club or resort and just watch? We explain why voyeurism is completely acceptable, how to say “no” without awkwardness, and how “maybe next time” can be a healthy boundary. To close, we share a personal story about trying something new as a couple, leaning into trust, and then talking through what we liked afterward, because exploration only works when communication stays strong.
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Welcome And Road Trip Plans
SPEAKER_04Welcome to Next Door Splane, a podcast about lifestyle travel and events, hosted by Veteran Lifestyle Couple Cora and Max. In each episode, we hope to entertain, educate, and provide information based on our own personal experiences. The views, thoughts, and ideas expressed are solely our own and not to be taken as professional advice.
SPEAKER_01Today we are recording from Secrets Hideaway in Kissimmee, Florida.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, and look at this backdrop. I mean, we are in the dungeon of the playroom area here at Secrets. And want to give you a quick shout out to all of our fans, out there, subscribers, but not even just that, but to the crowd and the group here and the management staff at Secrets for being phenomenal for us to come here and be able to bring this to you guys on this glorious day. As you can tell, we're in pants and we're on long sleeves. So it's a little chilly right now in Florida.
SPEAKER_04We had a little cold snap. So it is, it does get cold in Florida.
SPEAKER_00It does.
SPEAKER_04Yes. So in our world right now, we will get to Secrets in just a minute. In our world right now, we are prepping to leave Florida.
SPEAKER_00We are. We are getting this shit show on the road. We're coming out there to the neighborhoods near you guys. And uh we are literally getting our uh the engines getting warmed up and we're getting ready to take off here in the next few weeks. So we're pretty excited about it and excited really to come out and see you guys. So make sure you hit all of our socials, give us that information of hey, come check us out at this location. You might need to check out this club, this bar, this whatever.
SPEAKER_03Appreciate that.
SPEAKER_00Yep.
SPEAKER_03Yes. All right, when we come back, let's get into the nitty-gritty of secrets.
SPEAKER_00Absolutely. We'll be right back.
What Secrets Hideaway Is
SPEAKER_03All right, well, welcome back. Today we are talking about secrets. What is secrets?
SPEAKER_00Secrets, it is the best playground in the world for adults, anyway. 21 and up, and you've got to be, as I said, 21 and older to be here at Secrets. But Secrets is a lifestyle destination. People travel from all around the United States, and I would even say, well, in different countries, in different countries as well, because there's a big contingent of Canadians that always like to come down here as well. And uh, but anyway, Secrets is the playful lifestyle capital of the world. I like to put it. It's one of our favorites. We love coming here, we're here all the time. And uh, I tell you, there is so much to do here, and really there is so much fun to be taken in here.
SPEAKER_04That's right. Secrets is a five-acre resort. It is in its 16th year. 16 years, 16th year of being open. It is a hundred and forty-four-room condo rooms. Now, all of these condos are individually owned.
SPEAKER_00Yep, absolutely. Now, we've been coming here for 12 years. So, to think of what this place was 12 years ago and where they are today, this place is amazing. We love it. It is a great playground.
SPEAKER_04Yes, quite a butterfly, right? It is a butterfly, butterfly. And all of the rooms are different, they are privately owned, they are all decorated different because each individual owner can decorate them how they want to.
SPEAKER_00Absolutely.
SPEAKER_04And all of them are available for rental, um, as well as owners will use them as well.
SPEAKER_00Yep.
SPEAKER_04Um, it also has two pools and two hot tubs. There is a conversation pool and the big mega boom.
SPEAKER_00The big mega, yeah, the beautiful, they just put it in two, three years ago. Uh beautiful pool with some great landscaping around it. The new Tiki Hut and Tiki Hut bar. Wow. Uh, it makes the outdoor, I say in Florida anyway, the living space or the party space here at Secrets, that it almost doubles the the square footage of where you can party and have a good time here. And they have a great DJ, DJ stand out there, stage. They do a lot of different activities. So the tiki hut, the new pool makes this place phenomenal.
SPEAKER_04Absolutely. There's multiple bars. I believe there's four bars.
SPEAKER_00Four bars in total. Two in the club, uh, two outside, one in the tiki hut, and then obviously the old um the old bar over near the conversation pool, which I just walked by the conversation pool. Guess what? There's conversations going on there right now.
SPEAKER_03It might be more than conversation.
SPEAKER_00Well, absolutely. There might have been some going on.
SPEAKER_04Speaking of that, in secrets, inside the courtyard at Secrets, play is allowed outside. And so we often see people playing poolside in the cabanas.
SPEAKER_00And not just allowed outside, allowed outside at any time. Like right now, we're shooting this in the morning. And like I said, there's stuff going on in the conversation pool right now.
SPEAKER_04Uh and the the club, the club secrets is top-notch.
SPEAKER_00Some of the best uh DJs they bring in, some of the best people we have met in the lifestyle are right here at Secrets. This, like I said, this is becomes a uh a travel destination for people that love to travel from uh everywhere, Washington State, Canada, Arizona. There's always a big that all you freaks in Texas that love to come in here. Uh, this place we we come here a lot. We are here on Fridays, we're on weekends, we're here during the week. As a matter of fact, right now it's a Thursday, and uh, I tell you, this place is always happening, always pumping. And the best part is that's usually on the weekends, but then on the Monday through Friday, it's kind of chill and quiet to where you can just have a vacation and you're only what minutes away from the guy with the big ears. Oh, yeah. Yeah, Mickey Mouse and all family destinations. All those family destinations, if you wish to take part that are located in Orlando.
SPEAKER_04This is just minutes away from there.
SPEAKER_00Minutes away. Yeah. Yeah.
SPEAKER_04Also, there is a dungeon space and play space. We are sitting in the dungeon. This is called Club Swinkster.
SPEAKER_00Yep.
SPEAKER_04Right here, a variety of play style toys.
SPEAKER_00That's the dungeon master's seat right there behind us.
SPEAKER_04That's why we're not sitting there.
SPEAKER_00That's a throne.
SPEAKER_04We're not the dungeon masters.
SPEAKER_00Not yet.
SPEAKER_04We'll sit down here. There is also a full play space in here with a giant shower.
SPEAKER_00Absolutely. And make sure you check out our promotional video. We did a video earlier. We did a walkthrough, a walk around of the play space, and I'll tell you, top-notch play spaces.
SPEAKER_04Very, very fun. Also, don't sleep on the restaurant. There is a restaurant with amazing food here at Secrets.
SPEAKER_00Absolutely. The food is top notch. You can get delivered right to your room. You can also set up a the Bloody Mosa bars that they come around in the morning. I'm sorry, bloody mimosa. Yeah, well, it could be Bloody Mimosa if you want to. But uh Mimosas and Bloody Marys, they can deliver them right to your rooms just uh by a phone call.
SPEAKER_04Yep,
Who It’s For And How It Feels
SPEAKER_04that's right. All right, who is Secrets for?
SPEAKER_00See, well, Secrets is for everybody. That uh that you know, honestly, we have been here many times over the different weekends, and we have seen uh and and I will we caveat this by saying each group, because a lot of times there's takeovers here is because obviously with a big beautiful location like this, groups kind of tend to come here and take takeovers or semi-takeovers. So you'll see the the group of people here change. So some groups bring in a little bit younger crowd, some bring in a little bit older crowd, or you'll be here on a weekend and you'll see everything in between 20 somethings all the way up to 70s, 80s. 60s, 70s, yeah. Which tells us we're gonna be doing this shit until we die.
SPEAKER_04Exactly. So it's all spectrums of the lifestyle.
SPEAKER_00All spectrums. Yep.
SPEAKER_04Um, a lot of people just within the BDSM world will come and to enjoy this the club swingster.
SPEAKER_00Yep.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, some people that are nudists, because of course the pool is clothing optional, clothing optional, and that is acceptable as well here. So it is all ages, all spectrums of the lifestyle. Curious to the venture.
SPEAKER_00And if you haven't been here before, so the pool area and the courtyard area is kind of set up in the middle, and then outside of that, there are is is the hotel essentially or the rooms. So if you're thinking about it, when you are naked and you're nude out by the pool courtside area, the only thing you gotta worry about are other patrons that are actually inside. You're not gonna be seen by you know the neighbor down the corner or anything like that. You're gonna be you're gonna be nice and discreet. You're gonna have a time of your life being in the courtyard area, naked, taking part of festivities. Activities. Activities. And you know, during the pool parties on the weekends, they always have a lively DJ party going out by the pool as well as pool games. We've seen some, we've seen some phone parties. Oh my god, my favorite phone parties. I love you guys. Should know that by now. Love phone parties. But the parties pool side during the weekend, or the games, I'm sorry, the games, they have some crazy ass games sometimes, and uh they're always fun to get the people involved.
SPEAKER_04Exactly.
Location And Best Times To Go
SPEAKER_04All right, where is Secrets located?
SPEAKER_00Where? It's right here. I mean Kissimmee. We're right here in Kissimmee, Kissimmee, Florida, just minutes, as we said, from Orlando and Mickey Mouse and all those guys up there, goofy.
SPEAKER_04Kind of in the center of the state of Central Florida. Central Florida.
SPEAKER_00And the best part is it is just minutes away from the airport. You can fly in and just take a quick Uber over here and have no issues.
SPEAKER_04Yeah, exactly. As far as when to visit Secrets, it's all year. We are in Florida, it's a year-round destination. Now, like I said, we are in coats. Uh, I'm in a coat and he's in long sleeve, and we're both in jeans today because it does get cool.
SPEAKER_00Now, let's define cool because our our cool down here in Florida is if it's 55 degrees, I'm getting some long sleeves on. Okay. Now I know for you guys up north that's a little bit different. And even you people, because we got a big osting that uh listens from Iceland, right? Oh, we actually do. To all our our our friends up there in Keplavik and whatever uh that are watching. Hey, uh, we know it's cold up there. This would be beautiful for you guys. But yeah, uh 55s is what we you know consider cold down here in Florida.
SPEAKER_04But also all four uh pools, well, two hot tubs and two pools are heated.
SPEAKER_00Yep.
SPEAKER_04And so, you know, people even when it's cold outside, people definitely get in the water.
SPEAKER_00Absolutely, 100%.
SPEAKER_04Exactly.
SPEAKER_00Yep.
Booking Info Day Passes Membership
SPEAKER_04All right, now we get to the how the act of well.
SPEAKER_00Let me ask you this question, Miss Cora, how do you get the information on secrets?
SPEAKER_04The website for secrets is secretsfl.com. All of the information you need is on that website. Go to that website and you will get all of the information you need. Some of the key points from there is you can book rooms on there to stay. You can also look at rooms for sale here at Secrets. There are condos for sale, so you can look at the availability there as well. Also, you can check out uh if you just want to do a day pass, you can walk right into the lobby and get a day pass. Do you want to talk a little bit more about how day passes and all of that membership works?
SPEAKER_00Well, quite honestly, the day passes and stuff like that, it's just what it sounds like. If you want to come in just for the pool party during the day, you can come in during the day and you can have that part. Now at night, they have another night pass, of course, and they'll give you these uh bad or not badges, but these wristbands, and they all are color coordinated to what time frame you're gonna be here. Now, obviously, if you're gonna be here for a whole weekend and a whole weekend takeover, no, you don't have to change out your uh wristband. You'll just give you one. But most times they'll give you one if you're just here for the day. And the day passes obviously work in time periods or time slots of during the day and then nighttime. And uh they're all different prices. Just the the biggest thing is just check out the website, get all your information from there, and then now you will have to sign off some paperwork at the front desk and you know give your IDs just to make sure, you know. That's we're trying the biggest thing here at Secrets is they really try to keep everybody safe. You'll see security walking around everywhere and checking on people, especially around the outside perimeter of the location, because I just don't want anything that well, they want to keep everybody safe because nobody wants that uh that disclaimer of uh not being a safe area to go enjoy yourself.
SPEAKER_04Right. So there is a membership.
SPEAKER_00There is a membership.
SPEAKER_04There is a membership, it is a membership-based property and then there is the the party fee. And so I think the memberships you can do like a monthly or a three-month, six-month lifetime membership, and then there is a party fee as well. Um at the lobby when you first come in, they will give you like like um wristbands and then sign the paperwork, check your IDs, but then they'll also give you a um parking pass as well. Um parking for if you're staying on property, there's different parking. And then if you're just here for the day, there's a separate separate parking area.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, there's a parking area off. Now, another thing about the lobby, and now this is my little thing that I absolutely love about the lobby area. They have a little coffee and little snack area, which that's typically where I'm at five, six o'clock in the morning, grabbing a quick little snack, some coffee to get regenerated and go for the next day. But there's also, if you've forgotten something, they have this great little sex shop right off of the lobby area called Fair Villa. Fair Villa. And they have some sexy, spicy things there from toys to outfits. If you forgot something that you know you wanted to wear or you didn't have anything to wear, what's really great about Fair Villas is when they have a big weekend coming up, they'll actually customize or put some of their materials out that kind of fit the theme of that weekend coming up. So Fair Villas is awesome. Make sure you check it out while you're here as well.
SPEAKER_04Definitely. I think we go in there every time.
SPEAKER_00Every time, just to make sure. I bought so many damn, I think I got every toy in there.
SPEAKER_03I think it's fossil.
SPEAKER_00I love it.
SPEAKER_03All right.
Safety Rules Discretion And Phones
SPEAKER_03Why?
SPEAKER_00Why the hell not? That's my answer every time I get that question from you is why wouldn't you?
SPEAKER_04Why do why come to Secrets? I think it is the best escape location. It is to escape your everyday world. You know, that adult escapism here at Secrets. I mean, look at this background behind us. You can see that we are in a dungeon right now, and this is a great way to escape.
SPEAKER_00Not in just escape, but to explore and be adventurous. That's my word for this month. I I think I'm gonna caveat that. Be adventurous. Actually, it's more than one word, but be adventurous and explore. Get out and try something a little different. And that might just be hey, I see a click over there or a group of people. I'm gonna go talk to them, say hi. Maybe put yourself out there a little bit. So that's my theme for this month is go explore, be adventurous. But what a better place to do it. Look at this dungeon. I mean, if you could see around us, we have a spider wall over here made out of chains. Why not get tied up on it, right? Not me personally. Well, maybe we'll see. Never know. We've got cages behind us over here, all sorts of different cages and spanking benches. But this is just a dungeon. This place has so much more to explore and take advantage of. So why not come down here and check it out? And you know what? You never know, you might like it.
SPEAKER_04That's right. Another thing about Seabrets that I want to highlight and caveat is that during the weekdays here, it is quiet. You can relax and you can lay by the pool naked and read a book and listen to music behind you. And then on the weekends, be ready to party. It goes down on Saturdays.
SPEAKER_00And and the parties vary. Ver the parties vary, as we mentioned already. I mean, sometimes there'll be like a music festival, like an EDM, like donkey. Uh, that kind of, you know, that kind of vibe, that's what you're into. But there's also weekends where it might just be a quiet off, more chill quiet, quiet weekend, or they might have a drag show out by the pool, or you never know. Uh check the website though, because they have all their events on there, and that is really
Why Go Adult Escapism
SPEAKER_00the reason and why to come here to Secrets, Florida.
SPEAKER_02Exactly.
SPEAKER_00Yep.
SPEAKER_04All right, our favorite portion.
SPEAKER_00Just
Just The Tips For A Better Visit
SPEAKER_00the tips. Just the tips. I love that game. Just the tips.
SPEAKER_04All right. My first tip is to dress to impress. And if there's a theme, go all out on the theme. Themes are so fun. So dress to impress.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, absolutely. That's number one on the list. Uh, also be a hey, I've already said it. This is the word of the month. Be adventurous. Get out there, try something different. Why not? Uh, we only live once. No, we live every day, we only die once. So try everything, try it all. And if you like it, go back and do it again. And the best thing is too, guess what? No is an answer here. You can say no if you don't like something and walk right away from it. Everybody here would be would be down for it and be okay with it.
SPEAKER_04Exactly. Also, if you have a room here and get a condo for the weekend, we often like to not leave. Whenever we get on property, we like to park, we like to put those keys away and not lead. So we make sure we bring snacks and drinks with us. Alcohol is allowed in your room.
SPEAKER_01Absolutely.
SPEAKER_04So you can have drinks, shots, snacks, food. All of I think every room has a refrigerator.
SPEAKER_00One of our favorite things to do, and you just kind of hit on it, is we will open our door at night, usually around eight or nine o'clock when we're staying here, and we will just have shots out. And what a great way to meet new people. But it's another great way for people to actually see the different rooms, right? Exactly. Because people, you'll see the parade of people usually here at Secrets walking around doing like I'm gonna say room tours, but they do have room uh uh, what do they call them? Room crawls. They do do room crawls here every now and then on the weekends. But what a great way is just open your door and meet new people. A room crawl. Oh, okay. Now I can describe the room crawl. There's actually one going on tonight, and we're pretty excited about it. Uh, but the room crawl, uh, imagine this. You get about 100-150 people together, and uh you want to go and you usually meet out by the tiki hut area, and then they have people that will walk you around and explore each one of the rooms. And now you'll people will sign up. Usually it's anywhere between six and eight rooms, and they'll sign up. And what's great is they'll have different shots available in each room. So you get to go in the room, check it out. But the best part is you get to meet all these sexy different people that you'll meet from all over the place. We met some of our best friends, and I'm not gonna, I'm not just meeting like acquaintances in the lifestyle, but some of our best friends right here doing the rune crawls. There's a one couple I just remember this Budacious Booty that we met, and uh, they'll be here this weekend actually, and it's pretty exciting that we get to meet uh see them again because it's been a little while, but uh we'll be able to see them here this weekend as well. But it's a great way to meet people and say hi, but then also get to explore the other rooms that you might want to book for the next time.
SPEAKER_04That's right, right. All right, another tip is if you are coming on a or want to come on a takeover weekend that a group is a group is here, get reservations early.
SPEAKER_02Yep, absolutely.
SPEAKER_04Uh though that information again, secretsfl.com. Sometimes the bookings are through other websites, but the secrets will tell you how to get to those.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, absolutely. And uh another, you know, another this is one I like to bring up over time, just a tip. Uh guys, make sure you're prepared. Um, make sure you bring your your your play bag, your hoe bag, whatever you want to call it, and you have those things in it. And that's the other great thing about here at Secrets is where play is allowed anywhere. You want to make sure you have your condoms with you, uh, whatever you may need, right? Uh to make sure you're ready to go. And also for your lady to make sure your lady friend that you have with the, you know, your spouse and or other. Um, you know, we always like to kind of take the wipes, you know, I don't want to call them dude wipes.
SPEAKER_02We have condoms, wipes, lube.
SPEAKER_00Yep. And of course, uh one that I love. My my favorite now is putting the mask, getting the mask and carrying the mask around. I love doing that.
SPEAKER_04All right. Another thing, another tip about secrets is a lot of people will come here as a group destination. So if you meet people at different places around the country, you might want to say, hey, let's all come to Secrets on a specific weekend and have four or five couples from different parts of the country come.
SPEAKER_00Absolutely.
SPEAKER_04Because it is such a travel destiny.
SPEAKER_00It is, it is. And and and that's something I'd like to kind of hit on. And I've hit on this once or twice before. We get it all the time, we hear it all the time, we get asked it all the time that oh, that place seems to be clickish, there seems to be all these different groups. Yep, you're right, because here, especially at Secrets, it it happens other places too, but here at Secrets, especially, because it is a destination place, groups come here. So, of course, they're hanging out in their little group and they're hanging out partying together. So if you see that group, go over and introduce yourself, say hi. Don't sit back in the corner and then say, Oh, secrets is clickish, because guess what?
SPEAKER_02No one talked to me.
SPEAKER_00No one talked to me.
SPEAKER_02The question is, did you talk to them?
SPEAKER_00Yeah, so sometimes it takes a little bit of effort to get out there and kind of put yourself as I like make yourself vulnerable, but you know what's okay because when if they say no or they're not into you, it's okay. It's a big fishbowl out there.
SPEAKER_04That's right. All right. They also here at Secrets have a variety of activities like like you had mentioned, drag to brunch. They do bingo, uh, different bingo, like fun party bingo, and then they do newbie nights often. And so check the website for newbie nights because if it's your first time here, newbie night is a great time to explore.
SPEAKER_00And another reason, this is gonna sound weird and crazy for a swinger lifestyle resort, but the food here is pretty damn good and it's phenomenal. Uh, they've done do a great job with the different foods. Uh, they bring it right to your room. So, another reason to, you know, when you get here, not to leave. So another good reason why we kind of just throw the car keys away and uh and just enjoy yourself while you're here.
SPEAKER_04So the also the restaurant I did want to mention it is you order food at the tiki bar, and then that food comes to the bar, and then you can sit around poolside or under the tiki. There's not a separate inside restaurant like a sit-down restaurant. Uh, it is more of like a room service restaurant or a bar service restaurant.
SPEAKER_00And you just remind me of something, Miss Gore, too, and thanks for doing it because it just popped into my head as a little light bulb. Is that yes, you can have alcohol in your rooms, but out in the courtyard area, and there is a security guard uh there at the gate, you cannot take any alcohol into the courtyard area. So uh if you are drinking something, just have to be ready to dispose of it. But you can have as many shots and as many drinks as you want out in your room and then come join the party in the courtyard. So in the courtyard, no alcohol unless you buy it from their bars here.
SPEAKER_04Exactly. And they they do have a security at the courtyard um security checkpoint and spot, and they look through bags and you can't have glass, you can't have alcohol.
SPEAKER_00And if you're worried about discreetness, and uh we've seen it today as we've been running around filming. Uh, people, you're allowed to have your phone with you. However, if you're out by the pool area in the court uh yard area, they're gonna give you a little sticker to put over your cameras uh just to make sure nobody's out there taking pictures or filming, because it has happened. Right. And now they ask you, there is an area where you can do selfies or day uh what do they call it? A photo op area. There is an area to do that. So yeah, you can take your little thing off. But once you're done, put it back on there and just it's just for the screetness and taking care of everybody else.
SPEAKER_04People are at secrets for a reason. It's called secrets for a reason, right?
SPEAKER_00Right. Yeah.
Staff Shoutouts And Thanks
SPEAKER_00Uh that you know, I think that pretty much covers all the tips or just the tips.
SPEAKER_04We want to thank.
SPEAKER_00But yes, we want to give a big shout out.
SPEAKER_04Yes, all of the secrets staff is fantastic. All from the housekeeping staff to the lobby staff to the um pool staff, uh, but mostly, you know, the management staff for letting us come in on site and bring this information to out there that are curious.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, the owners out there, James and Carmen, all you guys, we love you guys. And uh thank you, uh, one for you know providing this to our great community, but then most of all for allowing us to come in and do this piece here, because again, we're all about bringing all this information to you guys. Uh, whether you're curious about the lifestyle or not, or whether you're thinking about going on a destination trip, you don't have to be in the lifestyle to come here. You can be 21 and up and just come out here and enjoy the pool. And uh it's clothing optional. You can be, you know, and try you know that way if you want to. Or if you want to go, why not? If you want to go to see Mickey Mouse, what a better place to stay and maybe take in a little bit of everything.
SPEAKER_02Exactly.
SPEAKER_00Yep.
unknownAll right.
SPEAKER_00But big shout out to the staff, big shout out to the owners and uh you guys out there, uh, James and Carmen, you guys, thank you, thank you, thank you.
SPEAKER_04All right, when we come back, we have a mailbag question.
Mailbag Can I Just Watch
SPEAKER_00All right, we're back with our mailbag question of the day. This is one of my favorites. I love when we get information from you guys and then we absorb it for a few days and then bring it back out in this form right here. Because I think this really does help everybody kind of get their feet wet and understand what this lifestyle swinging really means.
SPEAKER_04Well, because when we get a question, usually other people are curious about the answer. Right? And and it's a good to communicate and talk about the answer.
SPEAKER_00And if you guys hadn't seen, we did a whole episode just recently, a little while back, on just the questions, all the questions that and it's crazy how many questions we get in a day. So today's question is hey, I want to go to a club or resort, but I just want to watch. Is that acceptable? Is it okay? And the answer is hell yes. Hell yeah.
SPEAKER_04You know, that would be voyeurism, right?
SPEAKER_00Absolutely.
SPEAKER_04Um, and and sitting and watching activities happen is completely acceptable. In most play spaces and most dungeons, even in this dungeon we are sitting in right now, there are couches off to the side for people to watch.
SPEAKER_01Absolutely encouraged.
SPEAKER_04You do not have to go to a lifestyle event, club resort, and have to participate with other people. You can just sit back and watch. And that's what a lot of people want to do. It's like live, you know, performance.
SPEAKER_00It is. And if people even come up and approach you and say, Hey, would you like to? No is a perfect answer. And it doesn't have to be followed up by anything else. It's up to you and your partner what you want to do.
SPEAKER_04So then you can say no, or no, thank you, or not tonight, or we're just interested in watching. Or that's completely acceptable.
SPEAKER_00Or better yet, what I or we would like to actually hear from you guys is saying, Well, you know, someone did approach us, and we said no, but we went back to our room and then we communicated and we talked, and they're like, Maybe next time we'll try that.
SPEAKER_04Yes.
SPEAKER_00So that was what kind of the thing that I'd like to hear from see going on there.
SPEAKER_04And that's actually another really good answer, is uh maybe next time.
SPEAKER_00Maybe next time. It's an answer as well.
SPEAKER_04It is. It is not tonight, and or maybe next time, or no, thank you, or just no. Just no, just no.
SPEAKER_00Just no. Yep. All right, that's it for our mailbag for the day. Right after this, we'll be back and we're gonna talk about a recent story that we had here. Uh, because we always like to finish out or talk about, at least, you know, while we're here, uh, an episode or you know, a story about what happened here at Secrets and from our point of view and what was good and bad about it.
SPEAKER_04All right, we'll be right back.
A Masked Adventure Room Story
SPEAKER_00All right, we're back, and we're gonna tell you guys to kind of close out this amazing episode here at Secrets from the dungeon. We're here in the dungeon. I'm still amazed that we're uh there's I like to say my seat back there, but there's the dungeon master seat right back there, and we're enjoying ourselves here in the dungeon. And uh I like it's amazing. So we're gonna talk about and we're gonna close this episode out about talking about one of our latest experiences here, and one of the things that I love to do, and kind of this is exploring ourselves a little bit between the two of us. Uh, just recently we were here, uh it was a couple months ago, and we wanted to try something different. We were in our room, just the two of us, and of course, I have my little um mask that I like to put on Miss Cora every now and then, and we were playing in a room. I left the door open, left the windows open, and we were in our room playing, uh, just the two of us and exploring each other, had the mask over uh Miss Cora. She even went as far as and then taking it off herself and putting it on me, which doesn't normally happen. But I, you know what? I involved, I I I was fucking adventurous. I was adventurous, that's my word, right? I was adventurous and I was stepping out of my comfort zone a little bit and allowed her to do that, which really kind of made me turn off the senses and turn off my safe mode and just kind of allow things to happen. Well, after we did that, it was sexy as shit, and then I put the mask back on you. And you want to describe how it felt with this the mask on, and then remember some of the other feels, and then we had somebody actually approach us in the room. You want to how that feeling help went on?
SPEAKER_04Yeah, so with whenever I have the mask on and you felt it as well, that adventurous, you have to turn off certain senses, right? So you've I lost that sense of sight, but also I have to be very trusting of um the other people in the room. And whenever we were playing in our room and people were walking by, I could hear people talking, I could hear footsteps, but also he was he was rubbing me with oil, and then outside of the room, people would stop. I know they were stopping because they would um have I could hear conversations because the door was cracked just a bit.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, and then this uh this one gentleman, we'll call him a single guy, uh, he kind of looked in the door a little bit and motioned if he could join. And I felt comfortable enough that, you know, he was obviously somebody that you would have been attracted to. So I invited him into the room. And with the mask still on, then what would that feel like with knowing all of a sudden that you had extra hands touching you? Because it was it was stimulating hot.
SPEAKER_04It was very hot and not knowing um, you know, who it was, maybe I knew the person, maybe I didn't, just not just giving up that control was fun. It was erotic, also having multiple hands you know on me. Uh, it was it was fun, definitely.
SPEAKER_00Yeah, so it was a great time, and we got to enjoy that experience with uh the individual coming into the room, and it was a lot of fun. Uh, and that again, that goes back to what I stated at the very beginning. We stayed at the very beginning that coming to Secrets hideaway here uh in Florida and Kissimmee, what a better way to step out of your comfort zones, enjoy yourself, immerse yourself and what you like to call what we we've kind of termed now recently escapism for you adults. Adult escapism, and just kind of get out there and enjoy yourself. It might feel a little vulnerable at times, but it's okay. And next day you can talk about it and tell what you liked, what you didn't like, and enjoy yourself. And it's all about each other, each other, and the couple that's and the experience that's involved with. And you can do that here at Secrets and have a great time. And that's why we love it here at Secrets. Absolutely.
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